This is a general theme around which life is based.
Let us boil it down to its bare bones.10 % of life is made up of what happens to you.
90 % of life is decided by how you react to the 10 %.
You determine the 90 percent.
This is where choice to be positive kicks in.
The key factor is your reaction to events that happen around you.
You cannot control a red light, but you can control how you feel about it.
You may not be able to control how you feel about it.
You may not be able to control the driver who cuts you up in the rush hour, but you can control your reaction.